The Hottie you dream about!!!

Well you probably want to know all about me...some of you know me as tongue_ring_goddesss or im_the_hottie_u_dream_about or maybe even Brat. I'm not in anyway conceited just to let u know that. The hottie id came from something someone once said to me. If you don't love yourself first then you will never love anyone else either. Plus he told me I''m a hottie and it didn't matter what I thought cause his opinion was the only one that did matter. I love meeting new people online. It's always fun and exciting. I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter whom I spend most of my free time with. I love to hang out with friends and just talk and have fun. I live with my mom cause she needs someone to take care of her now that us girls are all grown up n she is getting up there in age. Shes great, even though I gave her hell growing up...lol...I am the Black Sheep in my family and also the youngest of two girls. Always getting into and causing mischief of some sort and Daddy always spoiling me when mom wasn't looking. I spend alot of time on here talking to my many online friends. I also play the violin when I get a free moment from all my other duties as a single parent. I live in NW Illinois where it is boring, boring, boring. I got divorced recently. But shit happens. Now that I'm single I'm loving every minute of it. I like to be in control at all times and of every aspect of my life. If I have any piece of advice for anyone it would be don't get married UNTIL you know for sure its the right thing to do. Marriage ruined two of my relationships...lol. But enough of the bad shit..back to me and my site. I made this site for friends and people that I met online cause I got tired of everyone else having one n not me. Plus I got tired of everyone asking me "Got a pic??". So Here they are. I'm a very fun person once you get to know me. Alot of people think I'm a bitch but they find out later that I'm not once they do get to know me. You have to take 70% of what I say as a joke. I'm not very serious often but when I am there will be no mistaking it. I love to give people shit about anything and everything n most people take it like I'm being rude or mean. The way I figure it is if you can't laugh at yourself then who can you laugh at. I don't like mean people who pick on other people just to make themselves feel better. I also don't like people who pm you then try to get you to cyber...LOL. I think thats one of the worst ideas someone ever came up with. I mean if I'm gonna get laid there better be a real life guy involved not an image of some guy who u barely even know, who lives a thousand miles away, that you can't even touch and that you can only see on a pc screen in a little tiny boxed window...lol. I'm a very honest and foward person most of the time which got me into alot of trouble when I was younger. I say what I think and if you don't like it well your better off not talking to me at all then. I don't believe in lieing just to make yourself look good...who ever u told that lie to will sooner or later find out the truth and end up hating u for the lie so might as well start out with the truth. But hey now that you probably know more about me then you wanted to, go look at my site and if you like it great and if not, well at least i can say that I tried.